What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

Why hasn't Japan legalized same-sex marriage?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

Why have cell phones, the internet, and reality TV turned the world into a toilet, as this has not advanced us in any way?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

I’m a man. Why do I always fantasize about men’s cock? I don’t want a relationship with the man, I just want to suck his cock.

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

How do the youth in Taiwan perceive their national identity in relation to China?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

Trump is going to target known criminals in the country illegally for deportation. The Democrats have vowed to fight him every step of the way. Don't they understand this is one of the issues that cost them the white house, the house and senate?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

Why does a straight man like anal penetration?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

What a list actors/ actresses are notorious for being jerks in real life?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

Is it okay or problematic to be both Black and gay in society in the 21st century?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

How can fashion design be used to make a political statement in popular culture, and society?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

What is your opinion about homosexuality? Do you think that it is by nature or a choice?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

Any that are a turn off?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

How old are you? Male or Female?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

What is your favorite position? Why?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

If yes, what?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

Would you read them together?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

The Ice Breaker Questions

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

52~ What are your hobbies?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®

29- How superstitious are you?

67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

*** Random Questions ***

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

Nothing too Serious

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

*** Questions About Me ***

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

Please share Did you stop?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

If you win, what will you make them do?

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

Family Relation Age Play

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

What was the longest? What was the shortest?

39~ What are your love languages?

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

Have you ever? Care to Share?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

Any that are a turn off?